An abuser will blame others for all problems or for the abuser's own shortcomings.
Someone is always out to get the abuser or is an obstacle to the abuser's achievements.
The abuser may expect children to perform beyond their capability (for example whipping a two-year-old for wetting a diaper or teasing children or siblings until they cry).
This behavior includes restraining partners against their will during sex, acting out fantasies in which the partner is helpless, initiating sex when the partner is asleep, or demanding sex when the partner is ill or tired.
Hardy sexually assaulted the 14-year-old in Deanburn by “grabbing her leg below her bottom” in the middle of the afternoon in July.
The abuser will question the victim about who the victim talks to, accuse the victim of flirting, or become jealous of time spent with others.And in April last year he followed a 14-year-old and her 15-year-old friend while pushing his bike near Flotterstone Reservoir in the Pentland Hills.