A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.[Read: 15 shocking signs of insecurity in a subtly controlling boyfriend] Insecure men aren’t always insecure though.
I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.[Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.
I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.Almost all the time, you’ll just end up assuming that your boyfriend’s only trying to help you.