Whatever the reason, sometimes we slip and fall in life and then there’s desperation waiting for us like an unwanted old piece of toilet paper that just won’t come off your shoe. He can smell desperation on you a mile away like a puke-worthy, designer impostor perfume. If all you talk about is who you used to date, why you broke up and who you’re going to date next, you probably come across as desperate.
The thing about desperation, no matter how unavoidable it is sometimes, is that it stinks and repels the very people you want to attract like nothing else. Why not join a new club, get that job you always wanted or take up a new sport instead? DON’T stalk your love interests and exes on facebook. There’s everything you always wanted to know about so-and-so all laid out and waiting for you.
A weird tactic to show they're interested, I know, but it just shows how many people online are insecure.
And their insecurities shouldn't have you altering how you want to portray yourself, either.
You can’t possibly love everything that he likes to do and, if you lie about this type of thing, he will find out and think that you are capable of lying about other things too.6.
Showering him with gifts for no reason at all You can’t buy love, so don’t shower him with gifts when you hardly even know him.